This tool is designed to help you set clear, loving boundaries with your child while providing Biblical wisdom and heart-centered lessons that nurture real change.

When my oldest daughter turned five, we hit a wall. Her strong-willed, defiant personality was exhausting and, not only that, there were 3 younger siblings following in her steps. It felt like my husband and I were constantly on different pages! We needed clarity, consistency and a calm way to connect with her heart without being reactive.

That’s when my friend introduced me to a chart—and it made all the difference. Now that 5 year old is 22 years old and we have developed our own chart to help others who find themselves in our old shoes! The “You Choose Chart” provides structure and clarity on how to respond when your child’s behavior is not at it’s best. It creates clear expectations and consequences in a way that reflect our values and brings the family closer together.